{"id":3575,"date":"2020-06-11T19:59:04","date_gmt":"2020-06-11T16:59:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.es-ses.org\/?p=3575"},"modified":"2020-06-12T20:05:58","modified_gmt":"2020-06-12T17:05:58","slug":"cocuklarimizi-karanliginiza-teslim-etmeyecegiz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.es-ses.org\/?p=3575","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 Karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131za Teslim Etmeyece\u011fiz!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.es-ses.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/104167297_3048416765201583_7697550150558576787_n.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3576\" src=\"http:\/\/www.es-ses.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/104167297_3048416765201583_7697550150558576787_n.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"960\" height=\"720\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.es-ses.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/104167297_3048416765201583_7697550150558576787_n.jpg 960w, http:\/\/www.es-ses.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/104167297_3048416765201583_7697550150558576787_n-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.es-ses.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/104167297_3048416765201583_7697550150558576787_n-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>De\u011ferli Kamuoyu ve Sevgili Bas\u0131n Emek\u00e7ileri,<\/p>\n<p>\u0130ktidar\u0131n\u0131n ilk g\u00fcn\u00fcnden beri kad\u0131n ve \u00e7ocuk d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 politikalar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcren iktidar bug\u00fcnlerde bir kez daha \u00e7ocuk istismarc\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n evlilik yoluyla aff\u0131na y\u00f6nelik yasa tasar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fcndemimize ta\u015f\u0131m\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bizzat AKP\u2019li milletvekilleri taraf\u0131ndan da dile getirilen bu yasa tasar\u0131s\u0131, 2016\u2019dan beri aral\u0131klara g\u00fcndeme getirilmekte ve ba\u015fta kad\u0131nlar olmak \u00fczere kamuoyunun ciddi tepkileri sonucu bertaraf edilmektedir.<\/p>\n<p>Pandemi s\u00fcrecinde de g\u00fcndeme getirilen ve bas\u0131na s\u0131zan tasar\u0131da, k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funun 14 ya\u015f\u0131na girmi\u015f olmas\u0131, aralar\u0131nda 15 ya\u015f fark olmas\u0131 ko\u015fulunda evlendirilece\u011fi ve cezaevinde bulunan istismar su\u00e7lular\u0131n\u0131n affedilece\u011fi belirtilmektedir. 14 ya\u015f\u0131na girmi\u015f bir \u00e7ocuk ve 29 ya\u015f\u0131na girmi\u015f bir yeti\u015fkin aras\u0131nda nas\u0131l bir g\u00fc\u00e7 ve irade dengesi olaca\u011f\u0131na y\u00f6nelik hi\u00e7bir a\u00e7\u0131klama yap\u0131lmazken \u00e7ocu\u011fun r\u0131zas\u0131ndan bahsedilmekte, aff\u0131n bir kereye mahsus oldu\u011fu s\u00f6ylenmektedir. Bu yasayla, \u00fclkedeki b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n istismara, tecav\u00fcze daha da a\u00e7\u0131k hale gelece\u011fi, \u00e7ocukluktan ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131\u011fa kad\u0131nlar\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131n ipotek alt\u0131na al\u0131naca\u011f\u0131, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n istemedikleri evliliklere mecburiyetinin artaca\u011f\u0131 \u015f\u00fcphesizdir.<\/p>\n<p>Bu tasar\u0131ya kadar gelen yolun yap\u0131 ta\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 AKP iktidar\u0131 g\u00fcn be g\u00fcn \u00f6rm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr. 2009 y\u0131l\u0131nda lise ve ortaokul \u00f6\u011frencilerinin ni\u015fanlanmas\u0131 serbest b\u0131rak\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, 2012 y\u0131l\u0131nda 4+4+4 sistemiyle \u00f6rg\u00fcn e\u011fitimdeki k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n say\u0131s\u0131nda ciddi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fc\u015fe neden olunmu\u015f, 2013\u2019te evli \u00f6\u011frencilerin a\u00e7\u0131k \u00f6\u011fretim lisesine y\u00f6nlendirilmesi d\u00fczenlemesiyle lise \u00e7a\u011flar\u0131nda evlili\u011fin \u00f6n\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, 2015 y\u0131l\u0131nda resmi nik\u00e2h k\u0131ymadan dini nikah k\u0131yan imam ve \u00e7iftlere ceza verilmesini \u00f6ng\u00f6ren T\u00fcrk Ceza Kanunu maddesinin kald\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131yla \u201c\u00c7ocuk ya\u015fta evliliklerin ve \u00e7ok e\u015flili\u011fin \u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc a\u00e7an karar\u201d anayasa mahkemesince al\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. 2016 y\u0131l\u0131nda Mecliste kurulan Bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n \u00d6nlenmesi Komisyonunca haz\u0131rlanan raporla \u00e7ocuk istismarc\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n tecav\u00fcz etti\u011fi \u00e7ocukla 5 y\u0131l boyunca \u201csorunsuz\u201d ve \u201cba\u015far\u0131l\u0131\u201d bir evlilik s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmesi halinde denetimli serbestlikten yararlanmas\u0131 \u00f6nerilmi\u015ftir. Ayr\u0131ca \u015fiddete kar\u015f\u0131 kad\u0131nlar\u0131n korunma hakk\u0131n\u0131n s\u0131n\u0131rland\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131, bo\u015fanman\u0131n zorla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131, nafaka ve mal payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 haklar\u0131n\u0131n yok edilmesi, aile dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n, aile hukukunun dini temele oturtulmas\u0131 da komisyon \u00f6nerileri aras\u0131nda say\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Yine 2016 y\u0131l\u0131nda Anayasa Mahkemesi taraf\u0131ndan \u201c15 ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 tamamlamam\u0131\u015f her \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirilen her t\u00fcrl\u00fc cinsel davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n cinsel istismar say\u0131laca\u011f\u0131na\u201d ili\u015fkin T\u00fcrk Ceza Kanundaki h\u00fck\u00fcm iptal edilmi\u015ftir. 2017 y\u0131l\u0131nda M\u00fcft\u00fcl\u00fcklere resmi nik\u00e2h k\u0131yma yetkisi veren d\u00fczenleme ile din adamlar\u0131 aile hukukuna kar\u0131\u015fabilecek \u00f6zneler haline getirilmi\u015ftir. 2018 y\u0131l\u0131nda \u201ccinsel ili\u015fkiye r\u0131za ya\u015f\u0131\u201d 12\u2019ye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f bunun sonucu olarak k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n zorla ve erken ya\u015fta evlendirilmelerinin yasal yolu a\u00e7\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00fct\u00fcn bu geli\u015fmeler de g\u00f6stermektedir ki bug\u00fcn s\u00f6z\u00fc edilen affa kadar gelen s\u00fcrecin as\u0131l gerek\u00e7esi; \u201caileyi koruma\u201d ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda kad\u0131nlar\u0131n, k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n kamusal alandan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lmas\u0131 ve ev i\u00e7ine hapsedilmesidir. Yeti\u015fkin erkekler \u00fczerinden bir ma\u011fduriyet alg\u0131s\u0131 yarat\u0131lmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131p \u00e7ocuk istismar\u0131 \u201cerken evlilik\u201d denilerek me\u015frula\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmaktad\u0131r. Ailesinin ve yeti\u015fkin erke\u011fin bask\u0131s\u0131yla \u00e7ocukta bir r\u0131za in\u015fa edilmekte ve \u201co istedi, o da bana \u00e2\u015f\u0131kt\u0131\u201d denilmektedir. \u00c7ocuklar geli\u015fim d\u00f6nemlerinin bir \u00f6zelli\u011fi olarak kendilerinden ya\u015f\u00e7a b\u00fcy\u00fck birine \u00e2\u015f\u0131k olabilir, ona hayranl\u0131k duyabilirler elbette. Ancak burada temel sorumluluk yeti\u015fkindedir. \u00c7ocu\u011fun ilgisini fark edip s\u0131n\u0131r \u00e7izmesi gereken yeti\u015fkindir. Bu s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 \u00e7izmemi\u015fse cinsel istismar ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fim d\u00f6neminde cinsel meraklar\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131, akranlar\u0131yla fl\u00f6rt etmesi, baz\u0131 cinsel davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 pratik etmesi ile bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun g\u00fcc\u00fc elinde bulunduran yeti\u015fkinler taraf\u0131ndan istismar edilmesi, toplumsal bir s\u00f6zle\u015fme olan evlilik kurumunun i\u00e7ine girmesi aras\u0131nda da\u011flar kadar fark vard\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklar evlilik yoluyla bir istismarlar silsilesine maruz b\u0131rak\u0131lmakta, evlilik kurumu i\u00e7inde \u00e7ocu\u011fun duygusal, ekonomik, fiziksel istismar\u0131 da g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez ve me\u015fru k\u0131l\u0131nmaktad\u0131r. 14 ya\u015f\u0131na girmi\u015f bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun evlenebilece\u011fini s\u00f6yleyen zihniyet bu \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00fcreyebilece\u011fini de s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor demektir. Erken ya\u015f gebelikleri \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in ciddi bir sorundur. \u00c7ocu\u011fu sadece bedensel a\u00e7\u0131dan olumsuz etkilemekle kalmay\u0131p, psikososyal a\u00e7\u0131dan da zarar vermektedir.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fcm uluslararas\u0131 s\u00f6zle\u015fmelerde ve T\u00fcrkiye Cumhuriyeti Anayasas\u0131\u2019nda da 18 ya\u015f alt\u0131 \u00e7ocuk olarak tan\u0131mlanmaktad\u0131r. Devletler yasal normlarla \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 istismar edilmekten koruyaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 taahh\u00fct etmektedir. \u00c7ocuk istismar\u0131 yaln\u0131zca cinsel istismarla s\u0131n\u0131rland\u0131r\u0131lamaz. \u00c7ocuk i\u015f\u00e7iler, m\u00fclteci \u00e7ocuklar, engelli \u00e7ocuklar, tutuklu \u2013 h\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fc veya annesiyle beraber cezaevlerinde olan \u00e7ocuklar\u2026 Hepsi ihmal ve istismar ma\u011fduru \u00e7ocuklard\u0131r. Biz yeti\u015fkinlerin sorumlulu\u011fu t\u00fcm istismar bi\u00e7imlerine, aralar\u0131nda hiyerar\u015fi kurmadan ve hak temelli bi\u00e7imde ses \u00e7\u0131kartmak ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun tekrar\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015famamas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7aba g\u00f6stermektir.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcnya sa\u011fl\u0131k \u00f6rg\u00fct\u00fc bilerek ve isteyerek \u00e7ocu\u011fa zarar vermenin yan\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011fun korunmas\u0131 ve bak\u0131m\u0131na y\u00f6nelik eksikliklerin de ihmal ve istismar oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yler. \u00d6zellikle pandemi s\u00fcrecinin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ve kad\u0131nlar\u0131n, \u015fiddet ve istismara en yo\u011fun maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6nem oldu\u011funu ancak kad\u0131nlar\u0131n da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n da adalet mekanizmalar\u0131na ula\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyoruz. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 korumas\u0131n\u0131 bekledi\u011fimiz devlet ayg\u0131t\u0131n\u0131n tam tersi bir \u015fekilde, dini referanslarla \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 karartma giri\u015fimlerine kar\u015f\u0131 asla sessiz kalmayaca\u011f\u0131z. 14 ya\u015f\u0131na girmi\u015f \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n istismar\u0131nda \u201cfailin niyeti\u201d, \u201ckamu yarar\u0131\u201d gibi tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 asla kabul etmiyoruz. Ve t\u00fcm kamuoyunu istismar\u0131n aklanmas\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 sessiz kalmamaya \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcn yarar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zeten d\u00fczenlemeleri talep etmeye davet ediyoruz. Buradan bir kere daha hayk\u0131r\u0131yoruz; \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131za teslim etmeyece\u011fiz! \u0130stismarc\u0131lar\u0131n aff\u0131n\u0131 daha \u00f6nce engelledik, yine engelleyece\u011fiz!<\/p>\n<p>Latife DO\u011eAN<\/p>\n<p>ESM D\u0131\u015f \u0130li\u015fkiler Kad\u0131n ve \u00c7evre Sekreteri<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>De\u011ferli Kamuoyu ve Sevgili Bas\u0131n Emek\u00e7ileri, \u0130ktidar\u0131n\u0131n ilk g\u00fcn\u00fcnden beri kad\u0131n ve \u00e7ocuk d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 politikalar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcren iktidar bug\u00fcnlerde bir kez daha \u00e7ocuk istismarc\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n evlilik yoluyla aff\u0131na y\u00f6nelik yasa tasar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fcndemimize ta\u015f\u0131m\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bizzat AKP\u2019li milletvekilleri taraf\u0131ndan da dile getirilen bu yasa tasar\u0131s\u0131, 2016\u2019dan beri aral\u0131klara g\u00fcndeme getirilmekte ve ba\u015fta kad\u0131nlar olmak \u00fczere kamuoyunun ciddi tepkileri sonucu [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3577,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3575","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-basin-aciklamalari"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.es-ses.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3575","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.es-ses.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.es-ses.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.es-ses.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.es-ses.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3575"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.es-ses.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3575\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3579,"href":"http:\/\/www.es-ses.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3575\/revisions\/3579"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.es-ses.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3577"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.es-ses.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3575"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.es-ses.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3575"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.es-ses.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3575"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}